Saturday, January 31, 2015

Hugs

Summary:
                I read quite a few interesting essays from the “This I Believe” website this past week. Majority of them were under the themes music and friendship. However, the one that really caught my attention was an essay titled “The Power of Holding On” by Cameron of Litchfield, Connecticut. In the essay, the author refers “holding on” to hugging. She states how a hug can change relationships, how a hug is a way for hearts to connect. For example, it can turn an acquaintance into a friend. Cameron talks about how her grandmother would hug her so tightly even when her health was deteriorating. It was a way to reassure her that things will be okay. She believes that holding on has become more than a physical interaction. She feels that it has become a way of thinking. In the essay, the author compares holding on, or hugging, to a battery charger. She says, “A hug is like a battery charger, a good one can keep me going for a long time.”

Response:

                As I was reading this essay, I was thinking about a different definition of “holding on.” It wasn't about physically holding on, but more of emotionally holding on. But I do have to agree with the author when she said holding on, or hugging, is a way for people to connect. I do have my days where I’m feeling down and all I really need is a hug to make me feel better. I’m also the type of person who gives hugs to cheer people up, which is really the least I could do. Everybody needs a good, long hug every once in a while. It’s a good way of reassuring.